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Thursday, 26 November 2009

  • Nice Poem - When I Say I Am A Christian

    http://www.christiangoth.com/i_am_a_christian.htm


    When I say... "I am a Christian"
    I'm not shouting "I'm clean livin'."
    I'm whispering "I was lost,
    Now I'm found and forgiven."

    When I say..... "I am a Christian"
    I don't speak of this with pride.
    I'm confessing that I stumble
    and need Christ to be my guide.

    When I say.... "I am a Christian"
    I'm not trying to be strong.
    I'm professing that I'm weak
    And need His strength to carry on..

    When I say.... "I am a Christian"
    I'm not bragging of success.
    I'm admitting I have failed
    And need God to clean my mess.

    When I say... "I am a Christian"
    I'm not claiming to be perfect,
    My flaws are far too visible
    But, God believes I am worth it.

    When I say.... "I am a Christian"
    I still feel the sting of pain.
    I have my share of heartaches
    So I call upon His name...

    When I say.... "I am a Christian"
    I'm not holier than thou,
    I'm just a simple sinner
    Who received God's good grace, somehow!

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我並不是在叫喊著「我是得救的」
    而是在低聲的說「我曾經迷失過,
    所以我選擇了這條路

    當我說我是基督徒時
    並不是因為我覺得比你高一等
    而是承認我一直在蹣跚而行
    所以我需要一位生命中的嚮導

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我並不是在顯示自己很強壯
    而是在承認自己的軟弱
    並禱告尋求繼續前進的力量

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我並不是在吹噓我的成功
    而是在承認自己的失敗
    並且沒有能力償還所背負的債

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我並不是在自我宣稱我是完美的
    而是讓你看到我生命中的瑕疵是這麼的明顯
    但主相信我是有價值的

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我還是會感到痛如針剌
    但我有主來分擔我的心痛
    所以我會繼續尋求祂的名

    當我說我是基督徒時
    我並不是在評價你
    因為我沒有那樣的權柄
    我只知道我是被愛著的。




Monday, 09 November 2009


  • dying

    HOW TO STAY YOUNG

    1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay 'them'

    2. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

    3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. 'An idle mind is the devil's workshop.'

    4. Enjoy the simple things.

    5. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

    6. The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

    7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it's family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

    8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

    9. Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

    10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

    AND ALWAYS REMEMBER :
    Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

    And if you don't send this - who cares? But do share this with someone.
    We all need to live life to its fullest each day!!


    Worry about nothing, pray about everything!!!

Thursday, 05 November 2009

  • Old Entry


    寬恕 (re-copy and paste from http://www.xanga.com/five_horse_husband)

     

    寬恕是一件惱人的事。沒有人喜歡不寬恕,但寬恕卻不容易,而真心寬恕更難。寬恕不是單單說:「我原諒你。」如此簡單。寬恕是個過程。

     

    寬恕其實從一個意念開始。不過這意念不容易,甚至令人費盡思量。因為當考慮寬恕與否的同時,又可能會引起當初所受的傷害和傷痛。這痛會叫人失望,再次打擊寬恕的決心。To forgive or not to forgive is a question. 寬恕的決定和意念,也是一舜之間。當你決定從今要寬恕時,寬恕的歷程就將會開始。

     

    寬恕的歷程不容易。要真正的寬恕,要了解寬恕背後的複雜性。寬恕等於「接納」,接納別人對你傷害、別人的錯、自己的損失、自己的傷害、自己的軟弱和無助、你的損害永遠無法補償的現實、世事是如此不公平、自己是個不容易寬恕人的人、當寬恕別人後,你永不能再追討的悲情...

     

    寬 恕又等於「放手」,不能再懷抱以上的事物和感受,相反要面向一個不可預知將來和永恆,的確很可怕。寬恕的感覺是如此陌生,令人怕自己會變成怎樣,怕自己會 如何繼續面對將來的日子。放手成為另一種「失去」吧!沒有人喜歡失去,寬恕好像「對自己唔住」,原來也需要自己對自己的另一個寬恕。寬恕真不容易。

     

    如 何去接納呢?接納不是一種簡單的施捨,卻是一種深層的洞悉。對自己,對別人的洞悉。對自己,洞悉自己是個怎樣的人?受怎樣的傷害?有什麼改變和影響?有什 麼恐懼?自己的無奈無助?對別人,洞悉你與他的關係?他為何得罪你?他是怎樣的人?他的無奈無助?他對你的重要?原來,愛愈深,恨愈深。是的,不單問自己 恨他多少,也問自己愛他多少。你知道自己多愛他,就知道自己多恨他。愛多少,寬恕也有多少。知道自己有多愛一個人,就知道自己有多少本錢去原諒一個人。

     

    而且,寬恕有多少,你需要他人的愛也有多少。你仍然需要其他的愛、關懷和支持。寬恕當中有委屈,委屈需要向人伸冤,即需要別人的憐惜和憐憫。受別人的愛,才有力去愛另一人,寬恕另一人。信仰中,我們需要基督的憐憫,令我們有力去寬恕。

     

    寬恕與愛有很大關係,是雙生兒。正如愛一個人是個過程,寬恕也如此。愛一個人,由一個決定開始,慢慢認識對方,慢慢增進愛和關係。寬恕也是由一個決定開始,慢慢洞悉你我,慢慢增加寬恕的能力,改變當初的惡劣感受和關係。

     

    寬恕,有趣嗎?

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